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Problem Solving In Marriage

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Recently, I saw a YouTube Short where Salma Hayek was talking with Chelsea Handler about her marriage.


She said that it was the most important accomplishment in her life along with having a healthy family.


Chelsea asked her what the secret was to a successful marriage and Salma paused before she answered.


But her answer was remarkable.


She said whenever a challenge arises, they focus on finding the solution. They don't focus on who is to blame.


It's them versus the problem.


Folks, that is such a powerful practice.


It is easy to look at your spouse, blame them for their mistake or bad choice, make them feel bad and fight them.


I have certainly been guilty of this.


However, if your goal is to spend the rest of your life with this person and have a happy and healthy marriage, you won't make it very long before bitterness and resentment creeps in.


You and your spouse are a team. It's you two versus the challenges that lie ahead.


Keep this in mind if you want longevity and love in your marriage.


Until next time...

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